Thursday, January 14, 2010

stuff happens...

Stuff happens... and you can't change that. Eventually you'll get used to it, the pain will go, and it will just be a part of you past. It's like when someone dies, you will never forget them, never fully move on from it, but you get used to it.

I know from personal experience the difference it makes when you look at the good things that happened because of the bad. My best friend and i had a huge fight back in year 6, we pretty much hatted each other then in year 7 we were forced to share a dorm on our canberra trip. We became best friends again over this time and haven't thought once since, and we used to fight about twice a month.

Good always comes from the bad, you just have to find it, and when you start thinking that way, your entire world changes. the bad is still there, but you're not always thinking about it.

But if you can't find the good all i can say is that, it might not be ok, and it might not be fixed, but you will get used to it. It'll just be a part of your past.


1 comment:

  1. think about this...say...if you're standing in fire, but you're eating a chocolate bar, you're not going to concentrate on how good the chocolate tastes are you? no.

    but i do agree with you. that if you focus on the good stuff the bad stuff seems a lot better... i've already gotten over the whole fish thing cos i've been attempting to focus on the good does work...